Guard your anonymity
Your true identity is protected until you decide to reveal it. Never include your last name, email address, home address, phone number, place of work or any other identifying information in your profile or initial messages. Stop communicating with anyone who pressures you for personal information.
Exercise common sense
Take all the time you need to test for a trustworthy person and pay careful attention along the way. If you suspect someone is lying, he or she probably is, so act accordingly.
Do a little digging
We recommend getting as much info as possible by asking questions. Nothing is 100% reliable, just remember to use your head as well as your heart.
Request a photo
A photo will give you a good idea of the person's appearance, which may prove helpful in achieving a gut feeling. If all you hear are excuses about why you can't see a photo, consider that he or she has something to hide.
Chat on the phone
A phone call can reveal much about a person's communication and social skills. Consider your security and do not reveal your personal phone number to a stranger. Only give your phone number when you feel completely comfortable.
Meet when you are ready
The beauty of mingling online is that you can collect information gradually, choosing whether to pursue the relationship. You are never obligated to meet anyone, regardless of your level of online intimacy. And even if you decide to arrange a meeting, you always have the right to change your mind.
Meet in a safe place
When you choose to meet offline, always tell a friend where you are going and when you will return. Leave your date's name and telephone number with your friend. Never arrange for your date to pick you up at home. Provide your own transportation, meet in a public place at a time with many people around (a familiar restaurant or coffee shop is often a good choice), and when the date is over, leave on your own as well.
Remember...
If you're not single, don't mingle!